Join a group for raiding in #ffxiv and they schedule two days of doing stuff over the next two weeks of downtime (no new content to do in that time).
Later, it's agreed upon to not do those days because there's no reason. Cut to the first day (cancelled) where some of the group decides that, actually, they *do* want to do stuff. I don't show up because they said we weren't doing anything and that's extremely late notice.
They kicked me out. Better now than later, I guess, since I'm not gonna stay in a group that makes such random schedule changes at such short notice. Good riddance.
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